God does not make any mistakes. You are loved. You are a Divine Being. Honor that which is you. Honor that which is your uniqueness. Honor that which are your individual gifts of expression. Judge not another. Each are special. Each have a purpose. Each are aspects of the same God.
We are individual – yet connected, expressions of the One. Look to your own inner garden and plant. Tend not to another ones – otherwise this leads to distraction – outside illusion and leaves your garden, full of magic, potentials and infinite blessings, untended and unused.